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Originally Posted by Dr.Snow
If kids are going to do everything they see a cat do, we should probably cut off their tongues.
That way they don't lick insecticide off their leg or something.
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Originally Posted by Tango
They should just get rid of cigarettes. If they don't exist the kids won't smoke them. Or maybe, if the kids don't exist the cigarettes won't get smoked?
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Demonstrating absurdity by being absurd.
Anyways, to defend some of my points earlier: When I talked about other people telling other people how to live their lives, I wasn't just talking about myself. I was also referring to the people that make a living by creating or supplying things that are over-censored or over-controlled. Children should not have access to pornography, violent films and games, tobacco, alcohol, and many more things that I don't have time to list. However, just because they shouldn't have access to those things doesn't mean those things should be outlawed or kept out of sight.
As Ladylove pointed out, it's best that children are exposed to the world in a safe setting, as opposed to throw into a brand new world they've never even seen when they leave the safety of their parent's home.
Friends of mine that were sheltered by their parents all their lives have been some of the worst failures their first year of college. Guys that were never around alcohol, never allowed to go to parties, would arrive at college and have a new found freedom to experience things they've never seen before. They started drinking and partying, letting school take a backseat and many of them wind up failing out of school. I've also seen girls that weren't really free to date or from prudish families were never exposed to sexuality until they got to college and didn't know how to handle themselves once they had a sexual experience. Most ending up to be complete and utter sluts, it's really pretty sad.
On the other hand, friends who came from familys that were open and talked about things at least knew about sex, drugs, and alcohol. Their parents exposed them to the dangers and were able to categorize them as dangers and help their child understand that. Some of them still decided to engage in some of those behaviors, but they don't get carried away with it. They don't get carried away because they were introduced to these things in a safe and controlled environment, not once they're adults and free of supervision.